Welcome to
Michelle Van de Sande,
your trusted confidante and mentor.

How often do we set our sights on something captivating in the world, only to become consumed by the pursuit? Drawn in, we focus all our attention, resources, and energy on achieving that vision—sometimes with reckless abandon. Along the way, many of us become disillusioned, disappointed, discouraged, or so absorbed that we miss the signs meant to keep us on course.

“Michelle’s leadership skills are amazing. She is one of the most effective educators I’ve ever had the pleasure to work with - caring about her clients and their success.”

Peggy Q., Program Director

Personal Growth


True personal growth doesn’t come from a one-size-fits-all “solution.” Instead, it involves finding the right blend of insights and actions tailored to you. That’s where I come in. As a trusted mentor with decades of experience, I have guided hundreds of individuals and couples just like you; helping them find clarity, overcome obstacles, and discover their true purpose.

About Me


Hi, my name is Michelle!I have mentored men and women from all walks of life for over thirty years, providing guidance tailored to personal growth and fulfillment. Over the years, I’ve earned a Master’s Degree in Curriculum Development, Instruction, and Education. My Mentor Certification includes recognition as a designated mentor for the top five marriage programs nationwide, and my Master Teacher Designation has enabled me to mentor hundreds of educators, helping them implement best practices for effective instruction.As an international award-winning author, I’ve developed my signature approach to mentorship through my books and years of experience. Every journey is unique, and the path we create together will be customized to fit your specific challenges, allowing us to find the solutions that work best for you.

If you are interested in mentorship for personal development, I’d love to hop on a call and learn more about how I can support you on your journey.

"My greatest praise for Why Do You Want What You Want? This book penetrates your heart with truth. The authors connect with you in a personal way by providing encouragement, self-affirmation, and empowerment. My prayer is that this book will be your constant companion as it unveils Power Thoughts that will vastly improve your emotional, spiritual, and financial well-being.”

Pastor L.T.

Mentorship

Mentorship Makes a Profound Difference

Mentorship transforms lives by inspiring, reassuring, and motivating individuals to heal and grow. Through uncovering truth, it enables you to transition to the next level with clarity and purpose.A Mentor...

  • Instills self-affirmation, encouragement, and emotional well-being, keeping your best interests in mind throughout your transformation journey.

  • Is committed to your growth by challenging you to step out of your comfort zone and make extraordinary things happen.

  • Instills confidence and shares expertise, asking the tough questions that get you unstuck and moving toward your true purpose.

  • Provides guidance with problem-solving and solutions to overcome obstacles and seize new opportunities.

  • Improves self-confidence and offers clarity by unlocking your untapped potential.

  • Supports personal and professional development, helping you advance on the path to success.

  • Actively listens and inspires inner reflection, providing a helicopter view of the situation rather than a narrow lens.

  • Enhances other relationships in your life by instilling confidence and empowering you to take the right actions.

  • Challenges you to embrace your authenticity and dispel feelings of “imposter syndrome.”

  • Enhances emotional, financial, and spiritual well-being by sharing relevant encounters, experiences, and education.

One-on-one mentoring provides a highly personalized approach, focusing on your unique needs, challenges, and aspirations. It guides you through moments of disillusionment, discouragement, and disappointment to reach the core of your circumstances. This dedicated attention allows us to explore your situation deeply and design a customized plan tailored specifically to you.Mentorship for personal development offers a clear roadmap to success. Together, we’ll break down your objectives into actionable steps and develop a strategic plan to achieve them, with my support and guidance to help you overcome obstacles along the way.

“‘A truly great mentor is hard to find,
Difficult to part with, and
Impossible to forget”.

Confidante Sessions: A Unique Mentorship Experience

Life can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re facing challenges or standing at a crossroads without a clear path forward. That’s where A La Confidante sessions come in. Unlike typical coaching or mentoring, these sessions offer a unique, personalized mentorship experience designed to meet you exactly where you are and guide you toward the life you want to live.My A La Confidante sessions provide a safe, supportive space where you can openly share your struggles, hopes, and dreams. Together, we’ll uncover the underlying reasons behind your challenges and develop actionable steps for overcoming them. This is not a one-size-fits-all solution; every person and situation is unique, and I tailor my specialized mentorship approach to fit your individual journey.

“Through our mentoring experience with Michelle, we were exposed to issues we were unaware of and were provided the opportunity to discuss how we felt between ourselves and with an individual who provided experience, support, and encouragement. Michelle welcomed us with an open heart, and we always looked forward to our meetings with her. Not only did she provide us with the opportunity to have these discussions with one another, but she also shared her struggles and experiences through her own life and marriage.”

~ Mike and Carrie N.

Let’s Start the Conversation…

The first step in our journey together is a free 30-minute discovery call. This is a no-obligation, conversational call where we’ll get to know each other, discuss your goals, and explore how we can work together. During this call, we’ll clarify your expectations, review the mentoring process, and answer any questions you may have.

Confidentiality & Trust

As a certified mentor, confidentiality is one of my top priorities. Everything shared in our sessions will remain private and protected. This means you can speak openly and honestly, knowing that your personal information and discussions will be kept in the strictest confidence.

Mentoring is transformative but not a substitute for professional medical or psychological help.